Coronavirus Quarantine Preparations Part 1: Myth Busting and PSA

Coronavirus Quarantine Preparations Part 1: Myth Busting and PSA

As of writing, most of the major cities, capitals, and even nations are locking down due to the coronavirus or Covid-19. Countries such as France, Spain, Denmark, Netherlands, the Republic of Ireland, and the very hard hit, Italy are all on country-wide lockdowns as the death toll climbs. Land, air, and sea travel in and out are prohibited.

Naturally, this worldwide pandemic made people scared to go out in fear of contracting the virus. Many Americans have already received updates from their employers advising them to work from home and schools have already canceled classes. So, most of us are all quarantined in our homes. Panic, isolation, plus very easy sharing methods in social media make a perfect recipe for fear-mongering. This is why a lot of fake news permeates the social media scene.

As a public service, The Help will be sharing some coronavirus quarantine preparations to help you and your family get ready. In part 1, we share facts to help dispel the myths that are circulating on the interwebs. These facts are all sourced from the World Health Organization (WHO).

Myth: Antibiotics can prevent and treat Covid-19
Fact: Antibiotics do NOT work on viruses. They only work against bacteria. Since Covid-19 is a virus, antibiotics WON’T work in preventing or treating it.

To date, there is no medicine specifically approved to prevent or treat Covid-19, yet. For people who have already contracted the virus, antibiotics can be used to treat any bacterial co-infection as part of supportive care.

Myth: Spraying alcohol or chlorine all over your body will kill the new coronavirus
Fact: Spraying alcohol or chlorine all over your body will NOT kill the new coronavirus. You can use chlorine to disinfect surfaces and 70% rubbing alcohol to sanitize your hands when soap and water are not readily available.

Remember that these substances are still harmful when ingested at full strength. So don’t get them in your eyes or mouth.

Myth: Covid-19 can be transmitted through mosquito bites.
Fact: Covid-19 CANNOT be transmitted through mosquito bites. Covid-19 is spread through droplets generated when an infected person coughs or sneezes, or through droplets of saliva or discharge from the nose. So avoid close contact with people who are coughing or sneezing.

It is a good idea to practice social distancing, which is maintaining at least a six-foot (approx 2 meters) distance between yourself and others. No cheek to cheek kisses, no hugs, no handshakes. Avoid crowds and large gatherings such as weddings, concerts, conferences, sporting events, and mass transit.

Myth: Hot weather kills Covid-19
Fact: COVID-19 virus can be transmitted in areas with hot and humid climates. Actually, the COVID-19 virus can be transmitted in ALL AREAS regardless of climate. Hot weather cannot kill the virus, nor can cold weather and snow.

Frequently cleaning your hands with alcohol-based hand rub or washing them with soap and water is still the most effective way to protect yourself against the virus.

Have you heard anything that turned out to be fake news regarding the coronavirus? What’s the real deal? Let us know in the comments. Remember to work smart and be a blessing to someone today. Stay safe and healthy!

When a Vacation can’t Cure a Burnout from Work

When a Vacation can’t Cure a Burnout from Work

Have you ever woken up on a Monday morning and exclaimed to yourself – “oh no, not again!” It starts off sinisterly, like on one unassuming Sunday afternoon. Our heart starts to fill with dread at the thought of coming to work tomorrow. And when tomorrow finally rolls in, you drag yourself out of bed and try to fake energy and enthusiasm with a cup of coffee. You somehow manage to get yourself to the office and hunker down to work but lose your focus and get annoyed at the slightest work interruption.

If this keeps happening, then it’s no longer normal work stress. It is a burnout. You might not believe it, seeing as you love your job so much. But even those who have passion for their jobs are not immune to experiencing burnouts. If you’re one of them, you are not alone.

A Deloitte marketplace survey says 77% of 1000 respondents experience employee burnout at their current job. In a culture where busy is a badge of honor and constant exhaustion is the new normal, it is no surprise that many employees are wildly careening towards a big crash n’ burn. So how do you get yourself back on track? Here are 3 tips to “cure” a burnout, realistically.

Get your time back
Being busy leaves us with no time for self-reflection. So you work your way through the day and power through without a second thought about how you are feeling. You then slowly but steadily move out of sync with your emotional state. Over time, your emotional tank gets by on being half full (or almost empty) and that is a sure way that leads to burnout.

Don’t wait until your tank is empty before you practice self-care. Pause and take a physical and mental break. Reflect on how you’re feeling. Are you running on fumes? Refuel your tank by getting food, taking a break, packing up for the day, writing a to-do list, or just deep breathing for a while.

Detach yourself from work
When you leave the office at 6pm, are you done for the day or do you take work home? Being constantly connected means you never miss a thing, but it also means you never truly leave work behind – you just change venues. If you take work home, check your email during weekends, work on that project while on vacation, or answer business calls in the car, you’re constantly working without breaks. So why do you wonder why you’re so exhausted?

Learn to set personal boundaries. Know when work is over and personal time begins. Set hard stop times. And please, for the love of all that’s fun, mentally detach yourself from work at the end of each workday and take your weekends back.

The incredibly satisfying art of doing nothing
Technology is an amazing thing. We now have an app for everything. This is why we never get bored. If you own a smartphone, you’ll always have something to do. Check your social media feeds, watch the news, play a game, pay your bills, shop online, plan your next vacation, listen to music, or even take online courses. There is no shortage of things to keep you busy. No one is really doing nothing. We’re all busy doing productive or quasi productive things, especially on our mobile devices. But even if we’re doing these things to pass the time, it really doesn’t help us with much needed physiological and psychological replenishment. So do yourself a favor, schedule a time in your busy workday to just nothing for at least 5mins. Your brain will thank you.

How do you beat work burnout? Let us know in the comments. Remember to work smart and be a blessing to someone today.

Written by Jaie O. TheHelp

Navigating an Office Romance

Navigating an Office Romance

Valentine’s Day has come and gone and although it is not an official holiday, many have celebrated it with their loved ones be it a significant other, friends, or family. How many of you have celebrated it with a coworker? I’m not talking about celebrating as a group with the mandatory heart topped cupcakes, red balloons, or (insert Valentine’s themed item for giveaway here)  being given away at the office during Valentine’s day. I’m talking about an office romance.

There are a lot of people who meet their significant others at work or through work projects. However, in many companies, dating a coworker is frowned upon. Some even have company policies against it. But what if you’ve been flirting with a colleague and want things to progress to the next level? The heart wants what the heart wants, right? Should you forget about your budding relationship and just cut it short? Should you pursue it low-key? What exactly is the ideal thing to do in this situation?

We spend ⅓ of our lives at work and because of this sheer amount of time, we will often get to meet people who are very similar to us. We work in close proximity with others and get to see one another day after day. There is a good reason why a lot of relationships start off as an office romance – the more you spend time with them, the more you get familiar. You get to discover their likes and dislikes, you’re more likely to have a heart to heart conversations, you’re more likely to build friendships – and that’s what likely attracts you to one another. 

The risks of an office romance

Before you jump headfirst into an office romance, know the risks involved. There is a reason why office romances are frowned upon. Your professionalism might be called into question. Your colleagues might think you are giving your significant other preferential treatment. Your relationship might affect your productivity. Or worse, in the off chance that your office romance does not work out, you might affect the dynamics of your team. 

What to do

  • For sure this isn’t you but it’s worth mentioning: don’t try to seek relationships to serve your own agenda. People will see through that. 
  • Review your company’s policies regarding office relationships. Some companies don’t only prohibit dating coworkers but vendors, suppliers, and sometimes customers as well.
  • Do not date your boss or a direct report. It’s always a good idea to not date someone in your hierarchy whether it is a higher-up or a subordinate. Your motivations or your professionalism and ability to remain unbiased might be called into question. 
  • If you are in an office relationship, be open. Some relationships require specific disclosures. Some companies reassign their employees to another team or another boss. Don’t erode your employer’s trust by keeping your relationship a secret. Let them make informed decisions. 
  • Do not show public displays of affection. It makes some people uncomfortable. Do not be that person. Be considerate.

What do you think about office romances? How should it be handled? Let us know in the comments. Remember to work smart and be a blessing to someone today.

Are You Losing Steam with Your New Year’s Resolutions?

Are You Losing Steam with Your New Year’s Resolutions?

At the beginning of the new year, you probably had a long list of lofty goals. Let’s not call it new year’s resolutions. Let’s call them running goals. They are probably pretty well thought of, SMART (specific, achievable, relevant, time-bound) goals that you are sure can be easily realized this year. These goals are probably listed somewhere because you’re hell-bent on being organized. You might have already started working on them and have even made progress.

But then the rest of the year start to roll in. Before you know it, it’s February and a month has already gone by. You feel like you’re losing steam and that you’re slowly losing the motivation to follow through with your goals. You might not be as committed to them, unlike your rock-solid resolve during the start of the year.

You are not alone in this though. Studies show that a lot of people (around 80%) fail at their new year’s resolution by the first week of February. So, if you don’t want to be part of this statistics, here’s a tip to keep your motivation.

Check your mindset
Stop focusing on the end goal and focus on your mindset. This will keep you going. When it comes to staying motivated and seeing your goals through, having a growth mindset can make a huge difference. Having a growth mindset means that you believe you are capable of growth and of change. It means that you know you can adapt and improve.

In contrast, having a fixed mindset will lead you to believe that your behaviors and beliefs are fixed and innate. This could trick you into thinking that the person you are today is who you are going to be forever. That belief doesn’t allow for self-improvement and can wreck your motivation when it comes to achieving your personal goals.

Let’s say one of your 2020 goals is to spend less time on social media, probably just spend 2 hours per week. Then one day, you catch yourself scrolling through your social media feeds during a slow day at work. With a fixed mindset, you realize you have reached the cap you have set for yourself, feel defeated, and strike that the goal of limiting social media time off of your goals list. With a growth mindset, you accept the fact that your processes need some tweaking, forgive yourself for this slip-up, and vow to build a better system to help you achieve your goals. Perhaps you could stash your phone somewhere you can’t easily reach it (a locked desk drawer or a locker). Perhaps you could install a mobile phone app that could block off social media sites while you’re at work.

However, you approach it, if you have a growth mindset, you will focus on forgiveness and will be celebrating your small wins instead of beating yourself up over a slight hiccup.

What’s your secret to sticking to your resolutions? Share your tips with us in the comments. Remember to work smart and be a blessing to someone today.

Written by Jaie O. TheHelp

3 Tips for Successful Conflict Resolution at the Office

3 Tips for Successful Conflict Resolution at the Office

The office is where you spend ⅓ of at least half of your waking hours. At some point in time, it is inevitable to experience some kind of conflict in the workplace. Whether you, yourself are involved in the conflict or not, conflict can impact employee productivity. In fact, unresolved conflicts have a direct impact on how employees engage in the workplace and can definitely have a negative impact on workplace culture. Therefore, it is important for employees to learn the subtle art of conflict resolution.

Here are 3 tips to learn in order to navigate conflicts successfully:

Learn to communicate effectively
There’s talking and then there’s communicating. Most conflicts would be easily nipped in the bud if people just learn how to communicate effectively. This is not just about getting your point across but about actually listening to what the other person is saying. It’s not just about what you hear either. Effective communication means picking up on non-verbal clues, knowing which parts to not interrupt or having non-confrontational stances and gestures. Conflict isn’t always a bad thing. It can be an avenue to engage and exchange ideas if you manage it well.

Practice your problem-solving skills
This isn’t about being good at solving puzzles. It’s actually pretty straight forward. This skill is about learning how to see a challenge from many angles and approaching it with a clear plan while considering the many possible solutions to it. When people see conflict, they tend to avoid, deny, or pass it on to someone else. However, effective conflict resolution depends on how the people involved approach the conflict. Do they result in passive-aggressive behavior? Do they get into a shouting match? Do they avoid each other until resentment festers? The key is for both parties to see it as a challenge and exhaust all ways to solve it, even if it means getting input from an outsider with a different perspective.

Make teamwork a priority
Studies show that workplaces with a strong, deeply ingrained teamwork culture have fewer conflicts. This is because employees learn to focus on shared goals instead of disagreements that creep up in between. They ultimately have the end in mind. Teamwork also enforces defined roles which can majorly reduce where conflicts stem from. Lastly, teamwork reinforced meeting objectives over personal egos and preferences.

Bonus tip:
Stress management is one of the keys to healthy workplace relations.
Sometimes, it’s not about the work, the culture, or the coworkers. Sometimes people just happen to take their personal frustrations to the workplace and then blow up and vent there. Learning healthy stress coping mechanisms will reduce employee conflicts because they need not take their personal challenges to the office. So encourage employees to take well-timed breaks and vacation leaves. That way, they have decompression mechanisms in place to release bottled up emotions.

What about you, what are your tips for resolving conflict? Share your tips with us in the comments. Remember to work smart and be a blessing to someone today.

Written by Jaie O. TheHelp