Apr29

Simple ways to find out your priorities from a to-do list

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Simple ways to find out your priorities from a to-do list

Not every item on your to-do list is of equal importance. Be honest with yourself, some task won’t mean the end of the world if they don’t get done. When everything on your to-do list is a priority, then nothing is. This is why you should stick to 1 to 3 priorities and write them at the very top of your list. If you overload your to-do list with things that must absolutely get done, then nothing will.

We all know how hard it is to pick priority items when you have your plate full. So without further ado, here are 4 tips to help you prioritize your action items.

Write a to-do list
You should have seen this one coming. It is hard to pick out a priority task if you don’t even have a list. So get yourself organized and create a to-do list. List everything that you need to get done and categorize them into whatever system works for you. Some examples are:

Home
❏ Pick up dry cleaning
❏ Take kids to school
❏ Get ingredients for dinner

Work
❏ Draft newsletter
❏ Build a mailing list
❏ Send out newsletter campaigns

Or you can categorize them into activities:

Writing
❏ Create an outline
❏ Draft chapter 1

Layout
❏ Pick images
❏ Create template

Pick a system that works for you and stick to that.

Pick your priority tasks.
Pick one to three priority task per day (or a week, depending on what system works for you). The productivity powerhouse, Dr. John Maxwell said: “Things that matter most should not be at the mercy of things that matter least.” That should guide you in picking your priority tasks. Pick the task that has the most impact and importance.

Stop trying to do things yourself.
Yes, I mean learn how to delegate tasks that are urgent but not important. Items that require immediate action, but do not contribute to the goal can be delegated or better yet, automated. For example, email inquiries can be delegated, or you can create canned responses for the team to use.

However, I also mean stop trying to figure out the task by yourself. If you have a question, ask. If the task assigned to you seems vague, the burden of clarifying falls on the task giver, not on you. So go back to the person who assigned you the task and find out exactly what they need you to do. Otherwise, do not accept tasks without the necessary details needed to complete the work.

Find time to plan.
Find a convenient time to plan your activities. Carve out a quiet time when you can look at your schedule and upcoming activities so that you can plan your list accordingly. Friday afternoons could work so that your to-do list is still fresh on your mind. Or you could go for Sunday evenings so that you can plan for the rest of the week in advance. Do whatever works best with your schedule. Once your list is complete, you can pick out your priorities by day or by week – whichever works for you.

What are your top tips on prioritizing? Care to share them with us? Stay humble and hustle hard.

Written by Jaie O. The Help

Apr23

5 Things you can do in the Evening for more Productive Days

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5 Things you can do in the Evening for more Productive Days

Does this happen to you? You’re off to bed, pajamas on, face washed, teeth brushed, ready to get some much-needed shuteye. You’re thinking “well, today wasn’t so bad. I forgot a couple of things but I promise tomorrow I’ll do better!” The morning after, the 3rd alarm rings, signaling that you are now late because you hit the snooze button twice. You skip breakfast, grab some coffee at the store and head off to work looking decent but not really fabulous. Your day now spirals into a game of catch up. Then again, you’re off to bed promising to do better tomorrow.

Here’s the secret: good days start the night before. So if you want to have a productive day being less stressed and less frazzled, then you should prep the night before. Start creating your productive tomorrow, today.

Here are some tips to get you started:
1. Get your things ready to go – make a list of all the things you need for your day and get them ready during the evening before. Make cold brew coffee that’s ready to pour into your favorite coffee tumbler. Get your gym bag ready if you plan on squeezing in a workout the next day. Pack your office bag. Ladies have different bags for different outfits so invest in a bag organizer that you can just transfer. Pick your work clothes out so that you don’t have to waste time rummaging through your closet in the morning.

2. The 5-minute rule – no it’s not about food. The 5-minute rule is about giving yourself 5 minutes to pick up things and put them back where they belong. This goes for shirts, keys, wallets, bowls, cups, towels, and trash..and whole host of other things. A quick run through the house to tidy up makes it easier for tomorrow.

3. Check your schedule – quickly check what your agenda for tomorrow is. What are you doing? When are you doing it? Who are you with? Prepare accordingly.

4. To-Do list – make a prioritized to-do list. Extract your 3 top priorities (try to keep it at 3, otherwise you will feel overwhelmed) and put them at the very top of the list. Everything else can be moved around except for our top 3. Keep your list short and focused.

5. Decompress – at the end of the day, decompress. Try not to think about work, the news, other worries, or the state of affairs of the nation before you go to bed. Turn off your tech 3 hours before going to bed (or whatever is doable). Just turn it off already. The blue light from the screens disturbs your sleep patterns. Once you get off the screen, think about what you want to achieve for the next day to help you get into a productive mindset. You can also use that time to give thanks for all that you are grateful for.

How about you. What are your evening wind down rituals to help you get ready for a productive day? Share them with us in the comments. Stay humble and hustle hard.

Written by Jaie O. The Help

Apr15

What does your self care routine look like?

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What does your self care routine look like?

If you’ve been following us on this blog, you know by now that the secret to being a productivity powerhouse is investing in self care. You can read about it here: What is the Secret to Becoming More Productive? It’s Not What You Think. In that article, I mention that self care is more than just going to the spa or doing a face mask. The reality is that, self care looks different for everybody. Your version of self care would definitely be a lot different from mine. Mine would involve a lot of food and pet kisses, but I digress…

I have a box in my closet that holds “self-care” things. I take it out whenever I need a breather or whenever I need to take my mind off things that worry most adults (bills, work, relationships, health, etc.) Inside this box is a collection of diverse miscellaneous knick knacks that help me decompress: a coloring book, some pens, a compass (for making mandalas), old CDs, copies of my favourite cartoons and comedy shows, a calligraphy set…you get the idea. I don’t take away items in that box, I only add. All of these items are things that help me nurture my personal well-being.

What items would help you celebrate ME time? Out of ideas? Here are a few to get you started.

Physical
A jar or tube of face scrub – buy one of those yummy smelling one. If you’re a dude, the ones with coffee are very popular, and gives you the added bonus of smelling nice. Exfoliation is one of the self care practices that gets forgotten if it isn’t automatically incorporated in your skin care routine.
Face masks – same thing for face masks. This practice only get remembered when you finally find the time to decompress or when you feel you need to relax. So might as well get those that have skin improving benefits.
A jump rope – if you’re into fitness, you might already have exercise equipment at home Having this in your self care box will remind you that exercise is also, if not, THE biggest self care ritual there is.

Mental
Drawing or coloring materials – doing something creative is one of the self care rituals that not only improves your mental clarity, but also improves your cognitive functions by exercising your mental muscles. And it isn’t even hard, back breaking work.
Puzzle books – These are probably one of the best ways to improve your cognitive skills over all. Puzzles help exercise your logical faculties, without you having to feel pressured, tired, or burned out (very unlike solving problems at work).

Emotional
Pet treats or toys – these are things that will remind you to play with your pets or just go out for a walk with them.
Books – keep hardcover copies of the ones that resonate most with you, all the rest you can keep as e-books (or not, but if you’re doing Marie Kondo…)

Spiritual
Candles – light a beautiful beeswax candle in a scent you like and send out light and healing to yourself or those who need it.
Crystals and shells – if you’re into that sort of thing.

So here’s a question, if you were to put together a self-care box, what would be inside? Share them with us in the comments. Stay humble and hustle hard.

Written by Jaie O. The Help

Apr8

What is the Secret to Becoming More Productive? It’s Not What You Think.

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What is the Secret to Becoming More Productive? It’s Not What You Think.

When we think about productivity, we think about the people who seem to get everything checked, done, and dusted off on an arbitrary ‘to do’ list. We think about the account manager who has more work, more clients, more logged hours. We think about the parent who gets the shopping list right, the kids bathed and off to school, the bake sale cookies made, the house spotlessly clean. We think about the student who get to all the classes on time, passes all the papers, does extra curricular activities, and even has time for a relationship. When it comes to productivity, we think that the people who do more are more productive.

While these examples seem like the perfectly put together life most of us dream of, it is also a recipe for burnout. The truth is, doing more is not a very sustainable way of living. When you get stuck in the mindset that you have to do more in order to be productive, you paint yourself into a corner and start a mindset of being busy for the sake of being busy. So, do you want to know the secret? The key to being more productive is to carve out time for self care.

Now you might be this person I’m talking about. The one who has all their meetings scheduled, their work deliverables in progress, and their social calendar packed with engagements. I salute you. Most of us though, need a breather. Most of us need to take time for self care.

Before you go and book a spa session, let me explain a bit further. Self care is more than just going to the spa or doing a face mask. It could be, but it is more than that. Self care is any deliberate action that you make time for in order to nurture your mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional wellbeing. At its very basic, self care is all about cultivating the relationship you have with yourself.

Take a step back. Do you like being the go to person for all things at work? Do you like having your social calendar filled to the brim? Do you like being able to take care of everyone, all the time? These are all things to aspire for but are outside of yourself. All of them are about other people. In order to be more productive, you have to invest in giving your whole self (mind, body, spirit) the care it needs in order to function and flourish at your highest level.

The science backs it up: people who invest in self care have better cognitive abilities. They have better focus and concentration and perform better over all. They don’t run themselves to the ground and they know when to take the time out to focus on themselves.

You are an investment, treat yourself as worthy.

Do you have self care tips that you want to share with us? Share them in the comments! Stay humble and hustle hard.

Written by Jaie O. The Help

Apr2

Note Taking: A Skill that could Get you Ahead of the Pack

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Note Taking: A Skill that could Get you Ahead of the Pack

In last week’s article, This is why you spend so much time looking for missing things, I mentioned an interesting study that shows why taking down notes by pen and paper is far superior for memory retention than using laptops. The premise is that, the act of writing down information helps people remember the information better.

People assume that note taking comes naturally and that we all write down the important stuff when we take down notes. But not all notes are created equal. Ever had a moment in an exam where you try to shuffle through your memory for an answer but then give up and say “this wasn’t in my notes!” Those moment come up a lot of times. It doesn’t matter if you’re in junior high, uni, grad school, or even at work – “this wasn’t in my notes” moments come up often and to embarrassing results.

No one teaches note taking when you’re suppose to learn the skill. When you start school, no one expects you to take notes. They hand out books for that. When you move up to college or grad school, teachers assume you already have the skill of note taking down pat. No one expects you to copy what’s written on the board or to transcribe the lecture word for word. They hand out syllabi for that. When you’re already working, bosses and colleagues assume that the sales presentation is available in digital form somewhere, so no one is expected to take notes. They hand out presentation deck for that.

So what use is note taking anyway?
Easy. Notes help you retain information more quickly. Let’s go back to that sales presentation example. If you were in that meeting and you know that the information is readily available as a slide deck, how much of it do you really retain. If we both were completely honest, I’d say none! Ever wonder why? Because you weren’t paying attention the first time.

Note taking forces you to pay attention and sift through the noise to capture only the important things – things that are relevant to you. This is a skill that come in handy and could set you apart from the rest, career wise. If you are able to wade through the clutter and retain important information, you’d be an asset to your team and a very valuable resource for your boss.

What makes it good?
There’s no need to write down everything. You should focus on two things, capturing what is new to you and what is relevant. Pay more attention to things like dates, names, main points, and definitions. It would be best if you can summarize meetings or write down your own questions. This will allow for maximum info retention. Practise this every time you’re in a meeting. Write down your own summary or your own questions. It will exercise your memory and you’ll come across as someone who is interested and invested.

Note taking seems simple but is actually a great career skill to have. What other seemingly mundane skills do you think are good career skills to have? Share them with us! Stay humble and hustle hard.

Written by Jaie O. The Help