When it comes to sleep can having too much of it be a good thing? We all complain about NOT getting enough sleep. Every weekend, we foolishly try to sleep in to catch up with our sleep deficits accrued over a work week of sleeping poorly. So, getting too much sleep is a good thing, right?

No – it is not.

The amount of sleep varies among individual and with individuals. This means my sleep needs are different from yours. It also means that my need will vary over the course of my lifetime. I could need 8 hours to feel rested while you could need just 7 hours of restful sleep. In the course of my life, I might need 8 hours of sleep in my twenties and just 6.5 in my forties.

This being said, we cannot set an exact amount of time to say when a person is oversleeping. But, if we need to assign a value, it would be safe to say that most adults need anywhere between 7 to 9 hours of sleep.

Unless you have hypersomnia, a medical condition that causes oversleeping, it is not normal to constantly oversleep. Oversleeping can be as dangerous as not having enough sleep. Both conditions will make you feel sluggish and overly fatigued. Just like undersleeping, oversleeping messes with your concentration and memory. A 2011 University of London Sleep Study shows that both having too much or too little sleep causes memory decline, poor reflexes, and slower vocabulary. Both also cause a myriad of physical symptoms such as headaches, poor skin, eye bags, and weight loss or weight gain.

Psst…can I tell you a secret?

It’s no secret actually that when it comes to sleep (and many other facets of life), QUALITY over quantity is the way to go.

I’ve written about ways to get enough sleep here and here. They can be summed up by following the tips below:

• Practice good sleep hygiene – like sticking to a sleep schedule (same bedtime and same waketime everyday – resist sleeping in during weekends) and placing yourself in a sleep mindset (rituals before bed, e.g. brushing and getting into PJs, help put you in a  sleep mindset.)

• Diet and Exercise – check your diet for hidden caffeine and sleep killers (e.g. spicy food). If you must have a midnight snack, snack lightly on Tryptophan rich food. Tryptophan and carbohydrate combinations such as milk and cereal, or cheese and crackers can help with sleep. And please, no caffeine so close to bedtime. Regular exercise improves circulation and is generally good for your health, that can’t be said enough.

• Make your bedroom conducive to sleep – a good mattress, good pillows, and comfy sheets would be a great help. Keep light sources out (yes, I’m talking about screens like TV screens and Kindles,  or any disruptive light sources).

Good luck on your quest for the perfect amount of sleep. I hope you rest easy tonight and dream sweet dreams. As always, remember to: Stay Humble, Hustle Hard. Good luck!

 

 

Written by Jaie O.- The Help

Mothers all over the world have always believed in the power of warm milk (and a few cookies) to help put their children to sleep. Warm milk seems to be the universal prescription for sending us off to sweet dreams. What is the magical ‘secret” ingredient that makes warm milk a potent sleep inducer? Is it all just in our heads?

Science backed:

Dairy foods like Milk contain a powerful amino acid called “Tryptophan”. Tryptophan is a particularly fun little helper that can be found abundantly in protein based foods. You can also find it in the following: chocolate, oats, dried dates, milk, yogurt, cottage cheese, red meat, eggs, fish, poultry, sesame, chickpeas, almonds, sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds, buckwheat, spirulina, bananas, and peanuts.

Carb coma:

So there is a way to supercharge the sleep inducing powers of “Tryptophan”. That is by eating carbohydrate rich food. That’s is why the milk and cookies combo works so well. In addition to milk and cookies, try a small snack of yoghurt and crackers, cheese and crackers, or a cheese sandwich to help you sleep. SMALL is the operative word, so remember to keep the snack light as a heavy meal can lead to insomnia and a host of other problems.

Hidden sleep killers:

Do you know that your Hot Cocoa or your over the counter medicines can contain hidden caffeine that makes it difficult to get some sleep. Check the labels and you might find the culprit to your insomnia. Of course, the obvious caffeinated beverages should be avoided: Coffee, tea, and sodas. If you must have tea, stick to the sleep inducing kind like Chamomile, Peppermint, lavender, Valerian, Passion Flower, Lemon Balm, or Magnolia Bark.

Sugar and Spice and all things nice:

You heard it right…avoid too much sugar before bed. Too much sugar is generally bad for your health, pre bedtime or otherwise. Remember to take everything in moderation. Also, lay off on the spicy food already! There is this thing called heartburn. It has nothing to do with breaking up with your SO or Significant Other and a whole lot to do with an especially problematic condition called Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease (GERD). Lying down makes the acids in our stomach go up and makes heartburns worse. A heartburn kind of feels like a mini heart attack, thus the words heart and burn.

A little help:

Prescription Sleeping pills might help you achieve that coveted 8 hours of sleep, but it is not a long term solution for chronic insomnia. At most, it is a band aid solution to a serious problem that must be consulted with a healthcare professional. If you must take meds to help with sleep, it is best to stick to natural remedies such as Valerian or Melatonin.

Do you know of any sleep inducing food or food combos? Have you heard of any old wives tales that supposedly help induce restful sleep? We’d love to hear your tips. Please share them with us in the comments below. As always: Stay Humble and hustle Hard!

 

Written by Jaie O.- The Help

 

You’re motivated, you feel that you’re well rested, and you love your job immensely. But why do you feel like you’re dragging yourself to work? Why do you find yourself fighting back a yawn, 10 minutes after the start of your workday? Why do you keep nodding off at your desk even though you’ve already had coffee? Surely, that is not normal. Why do you feel tired all the time?

There are a lot of reasons for feeling tired, the most obvious one is, of course, not getting enough sleep. Though you may feel that you are well rested, that might not be the case. You might be racking up a sleep deficiency. Normally, adults should be getting 7-8 hours of sleep, every night. If you’re not hitting this target, you might be sleep deprived.

Sleep Disorders:

It could also be that you ARE getting 7- 8 hours of sleep, but that sleep gets interrupted by sleep apnea. Sleep Apnea stops your breathing throughout the night and it interrupts your sleep cycle even though you’re not aware of it. The result, 7-8 hours of sleep but tired and still sleep deprived.

Shift work can wreak havoc on your internal body clock. Rotating shifts can result in difficulty in adhering to an optimum sleeping schedule. Consequently, you feel tired and sleepy during the hours when you need to be alert and awake.

Medical Conditions:

Lack of Iron, which causes Anemia, is also a culprit for fatigue. Women should especially be careful as menstrual blood loss can contribute to an Iron deficiency. Hyperthyroidism can also be a culprit. When your Thyroid gland is underactive, you might feel sluggish and have very low energy levels. People with Diabetes should also be careful. Due to abnormalities in processing sugar, the body has a hard time converting food into fuel and thus, the feeling of tiredness. If you feel tired all the time despite getting enough rest, have yourself checked for one of these conditions.

What you eat:

We all know that consuming caffeine too close to bedtime makes it challenging to fall asleep and sleep deprivation leads to fatigue. But did you know that the increased heart rate and blood pressure caused by caffeine causes us to be tired, too. So be careful about consuming too much coffee. In the same manner, be careful about what you eat as well. Eat too little and you feel tired, but eat the wrong foods and you also feel tired. Have you ever felt sleepy and sluggish after you’ve eaten too much carbs like pizza and pasta and eventually fell into a food coma? I think you get my point.

Mental Health:

Depression often manifest with mental or emotional symptoms, but it manifests physical symptoms as well, and fatigue is one of them.

Check against the points above to see if one of them is the culprit of your fatigue and constant tiredness. Enlist the help of a medical professional and have yourself checked. And as per usual, a good diet and enough exercise will do wonders for your health.

Do you know of any other culprits to fatigue? Share them with us in the comments! As always, remember to: Stay Humble, Hustle Hard. Good luck!

 

 

Written by Jaie O.- The Help

We all know what happens when we don’t get enough sleep. We become moody. Our attentions gets shorter and we can’t  concentrate. Our reaction time is greatly reduced. Our memory becomes bad. And those are just some effects.

The effects of sleeplessness are different for everyone. And while most working adults are sleep deprived, it is doubly hard for employees doing shift work to get the quality sleep that everyone hopes to achieve.

First of all, shift workers do not fall under the traditional nine to five work day category. It can be extra challenging to find rest and relaxation when everyone else is up and about and you are just turning in for the day.

Another  main challenge of shift work is that it forces you to sleep against the clock.  We all have a unique internal body clock that produces what we all know as circadian rhythms. These rhythms occur in 24 hour cycles and act like “messages” that regulate various body functions. Your circadian rhythm dictates when it is time for you to wake up and when it is time to go to sleep. The problem is… this clock is “set” by exposure to sunlight. It is set to peak at maximum sleepiness mode from around midnight to 6 am. Shift workers must fight their natural body clocks to remain alert and awake at night.

I’ve written about tips to get some good night’s sleep before. These are general tips for the perpetually sleep deprived. However, here are some tips for those very special shift workers who need to stay up when everyone else is winding down.

A better rotation:

Talk to your coworkers or supervisor to get a regular shift rotation. Shift that rotate often and at random will take a toll on your body and mental health. It is harder to adjust when shifts change in random intervals. Negotiate for a more systematic shift rotation.

Nappy time:

Take naps whenever you can. Naps help you be more alert on the job. You may want to use your lunch hour to take a nap when you’ve had an especially hard time sleeping during the day. About 15 to 20 minutes should be enough to make you fully alert again.

Food is the best:

Ah, the benefits of eating well are endless. Try to eat 3 evenly spaced meals in a day. They help create time cues to help your body clock adjust to shift work. Start off the day with a good meal and avoid eating heavily within three hours of your bedtime. Eat healthy meals and avoid stuffing yourself. Digesting a large meal interferes with sleep and affects the quality of sleep you get.

Family onboard:

Get your family onboard. Explain to them that you are going to need rest in order to do your job well. Let them know that you need their help in achieving restful sleep and as much as possible to keep noise to a manageable level when you’re sleeping. If you have small children, make sure they are cared for when you are sleeping and make sure they understand that you are not to be disturbed when getting rest.

With these tips, I hope you get some good night’s sleep. Have I missed anything? Let me know in the comments. As always, remember to: Stay Humble, Hustle Hard. Good luck!

 

 

Written by Jaie O.- The Help

 

 

The term “partners” takes on new meaning when married couples venture out of the family home and work closely together in business or as office workers. There are immeasurable benefits to working closely with a spouse and there are just as many drawbacks. As married couples know all too well, relationships take a lot of work, understanding, and compromise. These requirements are the same for running  a successful business partnership or a working relationship.

Here are some tips to ensure that the partnership runs smoothly for those lucky enough to work with their spouse:

Play to your strengths:

In a marriage, there is usually a good idea of who takes care of what. One spouse is probably great at taking care of the finances, while the other does an awesome job at taking care of organizing and logistics. This may not be the case for partners who work together as there might be a lot of head butting and differences in opinions. So, delegate responsibilities to play to your strengths just like you do at home.

Leave work at work:

Spouses should agree to leave work at work and reserve family time as a strictly no business talk time. Both spouses should strive to secure quality time for the family. Only food and family at the dinner table, leave the quarterly projections at work.

Leave home at home:

Spouses fight and that’s the reality. But spouses should strive to leave familial issues and other intimate issues at home just as they strive to leave work issues at work. The key is to have open communications and agree to both have boundaries over what you can discuss at work and what needs to be left at home. Public displays of affection, heated arguments or personal conversations can embarrass or alienate coworkers. Even worse, they can disrupt the smooth flow of business.

Barriers:

No, these are not emotional barriers or communication barriers. These are physical barriers. Yes, physical barriers are important. Spouses should have separate offices or at least a separate space all to themselves. Even couples in the strongest of marriages will need a break from being with each other 24/7. Separate spaces help spouses work on their own thing without one looking over the other’s shoulder. They should let each other work without interfering and trust that the job will be done to the best of each other’s abilities.

Fair treatment:

Be each other’s toughest critic, yet each other’s biggest fan. It is never easy to take criticism from a loved one because spouses are expected to have each other’s back. But coddling will not do the business any good. The key is to give constructive criticism and positive feedback, just like a boss or a coworker would give. Endeavour to be collaborative.

Got any tips to share for married couples who work together? Share them in the comments. As always, remember to: Stay Humble, Hustle Hard. Good luck!

 

 

Written by Jaie O.- The Help