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When a Vacation can’t Cure a Burnout from Work

When a Vacation can’t Cure a Burnout from Work

Have you ever woken up on a Monday morning and exclaimed to yourself – “oh no, not again!” It starts off sinisterly, like on one unassuming Sunday afternoon. Our heart starts to fill with dread at the thought of coming to work tomorrow. And when tomorrow finally rolls in, you drag yourself out of bed and try to fake energy and enthusiasm with a cup of coffee. You somehow manage to get yourself to the office and hunker down to work but lose your focus and get annoyed at the slightest work interruption.

If this keeps happening, then it’s no longer normal work stress. It is a burnout. You might not believe it, seeing as you love your job so much. But even those who have passion for their jobs are not immune to experiencing burnouts. If you’re one of them, you are not alone.

A Deloitte marketplace survey says 77% of 1000 respondents experience employee burnout at their current job. In a culture where busy is a badge of honor and constant exhaustion is the new normal, it is no surprise that many employees are wildly careening towards a big crash n’ burn. So how do you get yourself back on track? Here are 3 tips to “cure” a burnout, realistically.

Get your time back
Being busy leaves us with no time for self-reflection. So you work your way through the day and power through without a second thought about how you are feeling. You then slowly but steadily move out of sync with your emotional state. Over time, your emotional tank gets by on being half full (or almost empty) and that is a sure way that leads to burnout.

Don’t wait until your tank is empty before you practice self-care. Pause and take a physical and mental break. Reflect on how you’re feeling. Are you running on fumes? Refuel your tank by getting food, taking a break, packing up for the day, writing a to-do list, or just deep breathing for a while.

Detach yourself from work
When you leave the office at 6pm, are you done for the day or do you take work home? Being constantly connected means you never miss a thing, but it also means you never truly leave work behind – you just change venues. If you take work home, check your email during weekends, work on that project while on vacation, or answer business calls in the car, you’re constantly working without breaks. So why do you wonder why you’re so exhausted?

Learn to set personal boundaries. Know when work is over and personal time begins. Set hard stop times. And please, for the love of all that’s fun, mentally detach yourself from work at the end of each workday and take your weekends back.

The incredibly satisfying art of doing nothing
Technology is an amazing thing. We now have an app for everything. This is why we never get bored. If you own a smartphone, you’ll always have something to do. Check your social media feeds, watch the news, play a game, pay your bills, shop online, plan your next vacation, listen to music, or even take online courses. There is no shortage of things to keep you busy. No one is really doing nothing. We’re all busy doing productive or quasi productive things, especially on our mobile devices. But even if we’re doing these things to pass the time, it really doesn’t help us with much needed physiological and psychological replenishment. So do yourself a favor, schedule a time in your busy workday to just nothing for at least 5mins. Your brain will thank you.

How do you beat work burnout? Let us know in the comments. Remember to work smart and be a blessing to someone today.

Written by Jaie O. TheHelp

How not to need a vacation after being on vacation

How not to need a vacation after being on vacation

The long weekend is over and so are the days of lounging on a recliner chair while binge-watching a recently concluded Netflix series. Even though you wish that the food, fun, and festivities would never end, it’s back to work for most of us.

Going back to work shouldn’t be a dreaded thing. Sure, we all wish the long weekend would draw out longer, but the thought of an exploding inbox and looming work deadlines is enough to make you have anxiety attacks over what is supposed to be a holiday break. You’re supposed to be enjoying the long weekend and not counting down the hours till it’s over.

Here, let me help you ease back into the work week coming from the holiday break. I have 3 tips for you.

Schedule a cushion.
You need some time to ease back into your groove thang. If you can take another day off for a 1-day extension of your holiday break, then do that. If you can’t afford to take an extra day off, then wind down a few hours earlier so you can relax and get your work mindset on. Do something relaxing like taking a long bath or baking a treat. These and similar activities will give you a few hours to chill and take your mind off impending work for a while.

Once you get back to work, don’t dive into a major project right away. Give yourself time to get back into a sense of normalcy. Start with small tasks, then work your way up.

Take yourself back with a souvenir
Avoiding a burnout can be as simple as reminiscing. If you have something to remember your vacation by, then you can take a quick mental break by going back to that place. Pictures, souvenirs, or even scents can take you back to your vacation. You may find that essential and diffuser oils come in handy when taking you back to a place. I have one friend who, whenever she’s on vacation, ask the spa where they’re getting a massage what scent is diffusing in the background and asks to buy a small bottle of it.

Take mini breaks
Do not go into full beast mode at work right after you get back from break. If you’re the boss, nobody likes a slave driver. If you’re an employee, you’re going to work yourself to the ground and face a burnout. Like I said earlier, the trick is to ease into it slowly. People don’t expect you to be caught up in one day. Take mini breaks. Ask around for updates on existing projects. Ask about news on pipeline projects. Get as much information and updates as you can before you die head first into work.

What about you? What are your tips for easing back into work from a vacation? We’d love for you to share them with us in the comments. Remember to stay humble and hustle hard.

Written by Jaie O. The Help